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I had the best of intentions, but I just had no idea she was wired differently.
So, I learned from the trainer how to interact with Putty for how she is wired.
Within a few weeks, she was walking calmly on the leash. Within a few months, she didn’ t need a leash at all. Eventually, you could drop a steak on the floor, and she wouldn’ t touch it until I gave her“ the nod.”
Putty did not need the trainer to teach her anything. I needed the training. And she changed in response to the change within me. And that happens because relationship is a Closed Loop.
Principle: Relationship is a closed Loop.
In an interaction between people, what we put into the Loop( our actions, energy, and language) causes a RE-action to come out of the Loop, back to us.
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