Triggers are what go into the Loop.
Boomerangs are what come out of the Loop.
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For instance, if you were talking to someone about something important and they just rolled their eyes at you, would that cause a“ reaction” in you?
Yeah, I bet it would.
What if, in that same situation, you were talking to someone about something important and they looked directly at you, nodded their head, and genuinely said,“ I’ m tracking with you. Yep, I got that.” Would you feel and respond differently to that interaction versus the eyeroll response? Sure you would.
Principle: When you change what you put into the Loop, you change what you get out.
Triggers are what go into the Loop.
Boomerangs are what come out of the Loop.
Read that again and take that in. It’ s both simple and life-changing at the same time.
© Reprinted with permission. An excerpt from our new book, The Missing Piece: A Proven Method to Single-Handedly Transform Your Relationships & Create Harmony in Your Home( Hay House Publishing)
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