Fall 2026 Aspire Magazine | Page 82

What my current soulmate received after I had done the inside work was a confident woman with an open heart that believed she was worthy of the high caliber soulmate she had manifested.

I was in energetic alignment with him possessing and embodying the values, qualities, and characteristics that he had done the work to become. It’ s important to remember that the high caliber soulmate you desire is looking for his / her high caliber soulmate.

That is why magnetizing your soulmate is an inside job.

This work wasn’ t accomplished overnight, although once I figured this all out, I did get right to it spending my time and energy working on becoming who I was desiring to attract.

Once this happened, God and the Universe allowed him to show up when I was on a solo trip to Paris … but that is another story.

So, at this point you may be thinking, ok, I get this inside job concept, but HOW do I really get started on this or do this in my life – become this version of myself I want to be when my soulmate comes into my life?

As a soulmate manifestation coach, one of the core things I work with my private clients, as well as those in The Soulmate Solution program, is to help women truly get clarity about the values, traits and characteristics of their desired soulmate and then embody them.

If this is not done, you will continue to attract into your life what you don’ t want, which is probably the version of yourself you are currently being if you haven’ t done the work to elevate yourself to your best version.

The Universe will bring in who you are and what you energetically align with so you must get clear on who you desire.