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Here are some steps you may find helpful to begin magnetizing your soulmate:
1. Get very clear on the values, qualities, and characteristics you want in a soulmate partner.
2. Once you have defined this list, do a deep self-audit by going down this list and journaling to the prompt: How am I doing this or embodying this in my own life and with myself.
3. For the values, qualities, and characteristics that the audit and journaling reveal that you need to do some work around to be what you are expecting or desiring in your soulmate, decide at least one baby step or one way to support yourself in these identified areas. Now, take action. As you accomplish the first small step, take another, and another until living that way becomes your norm.
4. As you develop this awareness about what you desire in a soulmate and start doing the“ inside job” of becoming those things yourself, you can use this awareness as a powerful decision making tool in your life by asking the question,“ What would I want my soulmate to do?” or“ How would my soulmate respond?” and finish the question with … that would make me feel: safe, respected, worthy, valued, cherished, or LOVED … all the things you most desire to feel.
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