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In fact, it’ s quite the opposite.
Which brings me back to explaining why, when magnetizing your soulmate, you must do it from the inside out. After years of empty searching, I was frustrated and devastated that the Law of Attraction and Manifestation“ worked for other people, but not for me.” Have you ever felt this way?
You see others happily in relationships, doing things together, having fun, holding hands, and experiencing all that you desire for a relationship too, yet it has not happened for you yet.
You might wonder, like I did,“ why has this not happened for me yet? What am I doing wrong?” It wasn’ t until I dove deeper into the Universal laws and practices that I fully understood that like energy attracts like energy and we attract what we are.
I realized if this was true, I had some work to do to be ready for my soulmate.
Before I did the needed work on myself, everything I was doing to manifest my soulmate was coming from a woman who was unfulfilled with who SHE WAS … poised to attract exactly what she didn’ t want.
She wasn’ t taking responsibility or being accountable for her own life and what she wanted out of it. She thought it was ok to dump that responsibility onto her soulmate. If we examine the principle that like energy attracts like energy, and we attract what we are … who do you think that version of me was going to be attracting into my life? It makes me shudder just thinking about it.
I began to do the inside work to shift my limiting beliefs about myself and what I was capable of by becoming the person I wanted to attract as my soulmate.
The decisions I was making and the actions I was taking that were necessary to embody the values, characteristics and traits of my soulmate allowed me to heal, trust myself, open my heart and begin to love myself which all led to a new self-confidence.
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