Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2016 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 91

– BRENÉ BROWN Brown shatters the misconception that authenticity is a quality. It’s not. It’s something we practice as humans, or as she says, “a conscious choice of how we want to live.” Then she defines authenticity as “the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.” It gets better. According to Brown, choosing authenticity means: Cultivating the courage to be imperfect, to set boundaries, and to allow ourselves to be vulnerable;  xercising the compassion that E comes from knowing that we are all made of strength and struggle; and  urturing the connection N and sense of belonging that can only happen when we believe that we are enough. (Honestly, I could quote from this entire chapter, but I’ll stop because I want to get to my point.) What does all of this have to do with your marketing? Taking into consideration Brené’s definition, I believe there are three guidelines for what I call “Authentic Marketing:” #1: Authenticity in marketing – just like in real life – is a practice. This means two things to me: It’s a choice, and it’s something you improve upon over time. In a world where the perception of perfection is everywhere, showing your vulnerable, imperfect, “love-myselfanyways” side is scary. You’re bound to get criticism. You’re bound to feel uncomfortable. Give yourself permission to slowly start showing authenticity in your marketing. Think of it as a journey where you’re taking those first tentative steps Remember, it’s a practice, and you may not nail it on your first try. #2: Your marketing must be a reflection of you. Have you ever written a blog post that doesn’t quite fit your personality or ideology? 91 CAREER/BUSINESS “[authenticity is] the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.”