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If a guy knows he can get away with anything he wants and you’ ll still be waiting around for him, he’ s not going to value you and instead he’ ll take advantage of you.
3. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND THAT YOU ARE A PRIZE WORTH WINNING
Men value things they have to earn. Be confident and see yourself as the prize that your man has to work hard for to win. Being the prize is all about inner confidence and knowing that you are worthy of being loved, adored, and worshipped. because it wasn’ t his choice. A man falls in love to a woman when it’ s his choice to chase after her. He has to feel like he won the prize.
4. MAKE SELF-LOVE AND SELF-CARE YOUR FOUNDATION FOR LOVE
Take the time to nurture yourself throughout the day was and actually listen to your own needs and body.
A lot of women get caught up in the fantasy of having a boyfriend. They might not care that much about the guy they’ re with, so long as they are with somebody and don’ t have to be alone. Be comfortable with being alone and honor yourself with daily, weekly and monthly rituals. It’ s very nourishing to make nurturing rituals for yourself.
Acknowledge and appreciate yourself. When you recognize your best qualities and show your sincere appreciation for the gorgeous Goddess you are, you will raise your selfconfidence and fall in love with you.
If you feel unworthy or unsure that he will step up to the plate to pursue you and are constantly trying to impress a guy and win him over, he’ s going to intuitively sense that you don’ t value yourself. Men are just as intuitive as women!
When you treat him like the prize and work hard to win him over, you are valuing him much more than you are valuing yourself. If he feels like you did all the work to get him into a relationship, he’ s going to feel trapped
5. RETURN TO OLD- FASHIONED VALUES
If you were raised with old-fashioned values then dating apps and casual sex may feel uncomfortable to you. On the other hand, you may feel completely empowered dating multiple men. Whatever the case, own your sexual power.
Don’ t just give it away to anyone who gives attention and buys you a drink. Your sexuality is a gift and a treasure. When you save yourself after getting to know another
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