Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) DEC 2016 / JAN 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue A Miracl | Page 87

7. P RACTICE PERSONAL BALANCE person and connect with them emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physical in an organic way you build intimacy, trust, friendship and connection. These are highvibrational qualities. Values like these can hold a relationship together without the need for control, drama, manipulation and mind-games. 6. PRACTICE SELFEMPOWERMENT, CONFIDENCE AND COURAGE A life of empowerment or enlightenment requires us to show up in class, do our inner work of slaying our emotional fears. What are our fearful reactions? Fear of rejection. Jealousy. Fear of loss. Fear of abandonment. Anxiety. How do we transform them into loving responses? Through selfworth. Connect to your self-worth in such a way that you love yourself first before you love another person, and the love that you do give to another is the overflow of love you have for yourself. In other words, make yourself first. When we become imbalanced, eg. Expect the other to fill our needs, heal our wounds, resolve past mistakes and failures, be responsible for your moods, etc. This is disempowerment in action and we are in a place of imbalance. We are placing the other person first. This action comes from fear of losing or rejection. Connecting to self-worth insures that everyone that you become involved with reflects to you the same self-worth you feel for yourself. It took a long time to realize I needed to stop prioritizing guys above myself. When you are a woman who values herself and is confident in who she is, you don’t need to play mind games and you will naturally activate a man’s instinctive desire to pursue. Men don’t fall in love the same way women do. They connect with you when you are connected to yourself, your worth, your value. This is your greatest Read Online! source of strength and power. Zinnia Gupte - Zinnia is an inspirational bestselling author, speaker, priestess and sacred dancer who helps women embrace their sacred feminine power. She is an expert at connecting women with their souls’ desires. She is the author of Shakti Power: Awaken Your Inner Power, Beauty, Intuition, and Magic, and co-author of Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Cultivating Joy, Inspiration for a Woman’s Soul: Opening to Gratitude & Grace as well as 20 Beautiful Women. She teaches sacred dance every year in Spain at the Ibiza Spirit Festival. Visit www.shaktipriestess.com today and claim your free Shakti Goddess Gift Bundle. 87 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS Balance in relationships is where you are not pushed around by the emotional imbalance of others. Your connection to your true-self / spiritual-self keeps you in tune how you respond to your happiness.