Dec24/Jan25 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 104

When you ’ re able to do that and show up for them with no expectations of how they will interact or show up for you in return , it diffuses the negative energy right out of the interaction , and you can enjoy your family event stress-free !!

Oh and one more thing : remember you don ’ t need their validation , and you certainly don ’ t need to engage in debates with them over things you don ’ t agree on . They are NOT in your Left-Hand . They are in your RIGHT- HAND . Act like it . ( and if you are NOT in a place where you can authentically show up and just give unconditional compassion to them , then check in with yourself … WHY are you going ? Is this really the best choice for your primary ( spouse & kids ) family ?)