The Right-Hand / Left-Hand™ Solution is two pieces :
[ Left-Hand ]
[ Right-Hand ]
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They are NOT in your tribe !
THEY are not the problem … it ’ s YOU , darling ( and I say this with love ).
You are treating them like they are in your LEFT-HAND , but they are a RIGHT-HAND person for you !
I know it ’ s hard not to say anything when you see someone you love in pain ( especially when you ’ ve got a solution that could help them ), but forcing that solution on them only makes them feel judged .
Your friends and family are where they are right now , and your job is not to try and “ fix ” them . So , what ’ s the SOLUTION ?
The Right-Hand / Left-Hand™ Solution is two pieces :
1 . Know which Hand you are in . 2 . Know your ROLE .
Before you interact with someone , just check in with yourself real quick and ask yourself , “ are they in my Right-Hand ( friends & family ) or my Left-Hand ( Tribe )?”
Then know your role :
[ Left-Hand ]
When you are with your TRIBE - go for it ! Share away . Talk about the book , share the cleanse , ask for insights and offer your insights ! Go for it !
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS
[ Right-Hand ]
When you are with your Friends & Family Group - give unconditional love for where they are now , without judgment and lead by example . That ’ s it .
Show up for your friends and family with the kind of unconditional love and compassion most will never experience in their life .
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