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This outcome is a predictable pattern with a predictable result .
When you change the pattern by solving the bricks in the wall , you change the result .

So , that ’ s dynamic one , the height of your brick wall .

Dynamic two is simply this : You ’ ve reached the end of your skill set .

That ’ s it !

Solutions to the endless arguing , the distance , the energy or anger , the stonewalling , eyerolling , disdain and sadness are all about relationship skill sets that can be learned by anyone who wants to learn them .
( Don ’ t worry , you ’ re not stupid for not having relationship skill sets and it ’ s not your fault that you don ’ t . No one ever taught us this !)
There is a skill , tool , strategy or solution to every brick ( upset , argument , fight or silence ) in the brick wall between you and your partner .

How do I know ?

Because for over a decade , Paul and I have developed our Relationship Development ® Method and tools to create the solution to every argument , kerfuffle or upset that anyone has ever brought to us .
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