August/September 2025 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 108

win-win, both people are genuinely happy with the outcome and no one gives in or gives up.

Learning how to create a win-win result in any relationship situation is absolutely possible. It’ s just a skill set and it can be learned. We have helped thousands and thousands of people do this, in scenarios at work and at home … even in the toughest situations where two people do not agree.

We dedicated several chapters to this in our book, The Missing Piece, showing you the step-by-step solutions to get to the win-win, even when you don’ t agree with someone. You can get a free copy of our book, shipped right to your door by clicking here.

Lie # 2: If the other person won’ t do this work with me, I have to do all the work. They do NOTHING and I have to settle for them never changing.

You may think...

• They won’ t have to change and I have to change everything.

• If they don’ t care and I do, then I’ m the loser, weak, needy etc …

• I’ ll do“ X” but only if they do“ Y”.

All Lies. That’ s just not how human-to-human interactions work.

Here’ s the truth. Relationship is a skill set and it only takes ONE person to learn the skill set and apply it, to see the OTHER person change in response to you.