Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov2019 Aspire Magazine | Page 64
not a priority for them. After measuring and
scorekeeping for so long, you can’t bear to
be the “loser”. They change easily when we inspire change.
It’s transformation through inspiration, a
skillset that can be learned.
Are you willing to hold onto your fear and
suffer with your relationship staying stuck or
worse, spiraling downward? It’s time to stop
score-keeping, harness your courage and
DECIDE to take action for your relationship...
so that YOU can live in the relationship that
you have always wanted! Ask yourself every day, “Am I showing up
as my best and most authentic self with my
partner and my relationships?”
LIE #3: No matter what I do, they
will never change.
One of our students, Bonnie, believed that
her relationship was to the point of no return.
Luckily, Bonnie’s sister, had gone through
our RelationshipU program and had begun
to see inspiring change in her life. Bonnie
started to have hope that it could work for
her too!
One of the biggest lies we tell ourselves
is that our partner will never change. Well,
if you were to divorce your current partner,
watch them meet someone else and fall in
love...they will change. Even though her husband was not at all into
personal growth or development, Bonnie
signed up for the program and began making
shifts. When she chose to transform, her
relationships at work, with her kids and with
her husband began to flourish.
That relationship will be fresh and it will seem
like they’re free from all of the crap that built
up with you until the pattern repeats itself
and that new relationship turns to crap too! All because she showed up as a Relationship
Transformer without power playing or using
Demand Relationship™.
TWO FACTS ARE TRUE:
Fact 1: Everyone changes.
Fact 2: You can’t demand that
someone else change to please you.
When you hear, “People don’t change.”
That’s a lie. What they mean is, “I can’t get
other people to change the way that I want
them to change!”
The truth is …. people change when they
authentically want to change for themselves.
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A year after turning their marriage around, her
husband was inspired to show up at one of
our events! All of Bonnie’s great relationship
results gave him hope!
It only takes one to say yes. And the best
part is that saying yes not only turns your
marriage around it also:
• Gives you the skills to be empowered in all
of your relationships
• Allows you to finally show up as your best
and most authentic self
• Gives you the opportunity to be the happiest
you have ever been
• Allows you to finally be the parent you know
you want to be for your kids
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