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The primary concern following a divorce
is financial. You are now in charge of the
money. It is so important to know where you
spend money and what you don’t need to
spend it on. Becoming fiscally responsible
early on will give you a strong foundation to
start building a new life. You need checking
and a savings account. Try to limit yourself
to one credit card to use so you can build a
good credit score which is most important.
Housing may become an issue. You will
absolutely need a good credit score to obtain
a rental home or to get a mortgage so you
can buy a new home. They also look at debt
ratios. If your total debt is higher than 36% of
your income, you may not qualify for housing.
Building a new career is easier today than
it used to be. You have unlimited access to
online training in almost any field you are
passionate about. Education has never
been more affordable. Maybe you just need
a little brushing up on computer skills? There
is endless free training on YouTube or you
could get specific classes on Lynda.com for
a very reasonable fee.
The man thing is the least important. Once
you have your life stabilized and you are
becoming financially independent, your
attraction factor will be much stronger. The
old days of finding a man with money to take
care of you are history. Men want women
who have their act together.
The more independent you are, the hotter
you are!
Financial stability will help you create
stronger beliefs and perceptions about
your ability to take care of yourself. It will
enhance your self-worth dramatically which
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will impact all areas of your life in the most
magnificent ways. You not able to start a
new relationship if you don’t feel really good
about yourself.
Getting back up from the devastation of
divorce takes resilience. It takes courage.
Women are so much more powerful than
they have ever been taught. Once you tap
into an inkling of that survival mode, the
adrenalin starts flowing. It acts as the first
wave to carry you through rough seas. Yes,
you will get bounced around. You might
even swallow a little bit of the sea water but
all the while remaining afloat. As new winds
fill your sails, you begin to realize you are
the courageous captain of your own ship.
BLESSINGS TO YOU
ON YOUR NEW
VOYAGE!
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