Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2016 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 71
When we have boundaries we are able
to effectively tell a bully that we will not
tolerate their behavior. We are able to leave
a relationship that isn’t serving us in what
we know is in our highest good. When we
have boundaries, we are able to enter into
relationships that do support us in our own
personal growth and healing.
#3 – You are able to
make life decisions that
serve and support you
When we have boundaries, we are able to
say “no” to that job that is potentially wearing
us out by working overtime for little pay. We
are able to say “yes” to taking new career
path without getting locked into feelings of
guilt or “what other people will think”.
#4 – You are able to
make choices that are
better for your health
and well-being
By having boundaries, we are also able
to make better choices for our own health
and well-being. We are able to say “no” to
smoking that cigarette or having a glass of
WHEN WE SET BOUNDARIES
IN OUR LIVES, WE FEEL
MORE CONNECTED WITH
OURSELVES AND MORE IN
CONTROL OF OUR LIVES.
wine and, instead, say “yes” to having some
green juice and going to the gym. We are
more aware that we’re going to feel shitty
after eating that brownie, so we’re able to
turn away and eat something healthier.
#5 – You feel
empowered
When we set boundaries in our lives, we feel
more connected with ourselves and more in
control of our lives. We are able to live for
ourselves, rather than through this desire to
please other people. We are able to be in
relationships that are healthy, balanced, and
equal. And we have the ability to create a life
for ourselves that we’ve always dreamed of.
Take action now!
How will learning to set boundaries
in your life support you in creating
a miraculous life for yourself?
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Jennifer Twardowski - Jennifer is a self-love coach, writer,
teacher, and spiritual mentor. She is the creator of Your Power:
How to Harness Your Energy So You Can Truly Shine and Ignite
Love from Within: Meditations for Creating Relationships and
a Life Filled with Love. Jennifer Twardowski is the founder of
www.jennifertwardowski.com, where her blog reaches over
100,000 views in 180 countries annually. Through her coaching
and weekly blogs, she helps women improve their relationships
with themselves, so that they can create lives filled with joy, love,
support, and fulfillment.
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#2 – You are able
to decide how you want
to be treated by others