Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 81

My husband Paul and I are blessed to have that kind of rock-solid synergy in our relationship today, and I will tell you that the effects of it go way beyond our love relationship with each other! When you have this level of unshakable love, and you and your partner are indivisible, it translates into you being confident and unstoppable in all of the other areas of your life! You’ll dare to try more things and take bigger risks. When you have this, all of the crap that comes at you from difficult people or challenging situations just doesn’t get to you. When day to day things aren’t going well, you are able to “not give a shit” because you’ve got your partner! No matter what happens, you have each other’s backs (and fronts, and sides)! Most things roll off your back, unimportant in grand scheme of things. When you do experience health challenges, grief & loss, or financial hardship it only serves to draw you closer together. It’s so worth doing this work to create your unshakable love relationship! You’ll not only set a great example for others (especially your kids), you’ll also bring that confidence to your work, your business, your other relationships, and your entire life. It will transform everything! Paul and I didn’t always have this, though! We didn’t just “get lucky” and marry the perfect person; we had to create this! If you’d like to experience this, you’ll have to do the work to create it too. The good news is that the ability to create a magnificent relationship is a skill and it can be learned! Today I’m going to talk about the 4th step of our proven 8 Step Relationship Transformation System ® and then I’m going to share a tool that we teach our students, so that you can begin creating your unshakable love, starting today! STEP 4: Synergy Synergy means you create a rock-solid, fully aligned relationship, where you bring out the best in one another and you’re able to have a far greater impact in the world together than you ever could