Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2016 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 56

write it on a slip of paper and put it in the jar. Then on New Year’s Eve, empty the jar and review everything you wrote. The gratitude jar itself will become a constant reminder to pause and be appreciative. D  eep, slow, intentional breathing will draw more oxygen into your body and open you to gratitude. While inhaling, breathe in love to yourself; when exhaling, breathe love out to others. Do this until your breath is rhythmic, and you feel calm and centered. Then, for at least a minute, let your energies expand outward in gratitude for yourself or someone else. Affirmations can be helpful in developing a practice of gratitude. This one by the poet e. e. cummings reminds us to affirm ourselves and life in this way: “I thank you God for this most amazing day: for the leaping greenly spirits of trees and a blue true dream of sky: and for everything which is natural which is infinite which is yes.”  Begin each day in gratitude with your partner, aware that there are challenges ahead but trusting that you will not be given more than you can handle. Visualize an image of the best your lives have ever been, and set an intention to make them even better no matter what has happened in your past. Walk in a state of gratitude with your partner. Remember to talk about your best times together. Identify experiences that made those times 56 particularly fulfilling for each of you, and the elements that characterized them. Then integrate these elements when co-creating new experiences. As a love ambassador, you can live in a constant stream of gratitude. You can wake up every morning with a sense of appreciation and a healthy anticipation for what the universe has in store for you. Before your feet even touch the floor, you can open your heart and give thanks for the day in front of you. You can trust that no matter what happens that day, it will be a good day. You accept life as it comes, trust that you are getting exactly what you need to spiritually grow at any given moment, and speak gratefully throughout the day about even the simplest things. Opening your heart in gratitude brings us into grace. Through this opening, we experience an uninhibited flow of love energy. Living in this flow of love is grace in motion. Read Online! Dr. Debra L. Reble - Consciously merging her practical tools as a psychologist with her intuitive and spiritual gifts, Dr. Debra L. Reble empowers women to connect with their hearts and live authentically through her transformational Soul-Hearted Living™ program. Her popular inspirational podcast, Soul-Hearted Living, which airs on iTunes and other platforms, is dedicated to reconnecting women with their heart. A soul-inspiring writer, Debra is the author of the International Bestseller Being Love: How Loving Yourself Creates Ripples of Transformation in Your Relationships and the World and the award-winning Soulhearted Partnership: The Ultimate Experience of Love, Passion, and Intimacy. Visit Debra’s blog for inspirational posts and to claim your 4 part Soul-Hearted Living Sacred Meditation Series. www.AspireMAG.net | August / September 2016