Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) April/May 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 75
Instead of focusing on how your husband
doesn’t think/feel/process/do things the way
you want him to, consider this….
He is tied to you! He does NOT want you to
be miserable all the time, because you are
taking him down with you! So he is not doing
any of this “mis-behaving” intentionally!
And neither are you! Yes, you! There’s a lot of
stuff that you are doing UNINTENTIONALLY
that is causing the kerfuffle and unhappiness
you are currently living in.
I know you don’t mean to do it. It’s invisible
to you right now. Just like it was to Beth,
before she got the Relationship Education
that she deserved!
Let me save you from some agony…
Please do not make the painful mistake of
thinking that compromise, good behavior,
staying quiet or trying to please others is
ever going to work to create the happiness
that you want in your relationship! None of
those things work! None of them!
In my experience, the only methodology
that really works is to SEE things differently
and then implement the tools and strategies
to create the relationship that you deserve!
One of the best ways to start shifting your
perspective and SEE things differently is
to learn what you do not yet know about
yourself, your partner and relationships!
Then you can SEE things with new eyes,
which is SO much more effective than trying
to have “good behavior”!
In my next column, I will be talking about
Step Three of our system, Strategies! These
are the tools and strategies that work in
real life to create your unshakable love and
unleashed passion!
Until then, if you want our support in shifting
your perspective and getting the relationship
education you deserve, please check out our
programs and events that are designed to
support you!
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Expert Stacey Martino knows that it
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Trained and certified by Tony Robbins, Stacey is a certified marriage
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Out of the 8 Billion people on this planet, your
partner chose to commit himself to you. Just
you. You are the ONLY one that he gets to
be with. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to
figure out that he does NOT actually WANT
you to be miserable!
Your shift in perspective is the OPENING to
the tools and strategies to come!