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Great manifestors have learned the art of managing their thoughts and emotions so that even when doubt , fear or other limiting feelings pop up , they are not swept into a spiral of negativity .

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Example : I joyfully welcome my soulmate into my life . He / She is ready for a longterm loving , affectionate , monogamous lifetime with me as we create a fabulous life together .
Next , spend time each day in silence focused on how it “ feels ” inside your body to be in the present moment with your beloved . Close your eyes and use your imagination and see them sitting across from you . As you feel the heat radiate off their body what feelings are evoked in your heart ? Do you feel joyful ? Excited ? Relieved ? Spend time feeling these feelings ( it ’ s ok to fake it till you make it ) knowing and trusting that on some cosmic level you are truly spending time with your beloved . You can even use this time to have a silent conversation with them . It ’ s important to do this every day . Remember , this exercise is about “ feeling ” not “ seeing ” so focus on emotions not literally trying to see them .
Becoming a successful manifestor – whether you want to manifest love , money , a new career , or simply a parking space – requires a certain level of emotional maturity . Great manifestors have learned the art of managing their thoughts and emotions so that even when doubt , fear or other limiting feelings pop up , they are not swept into a spiral of negativity . Developing this kind of mental discipline requires us to make a deliberate choice to focus our attention on what we desire rather than on what we don ’ t want . For example , whenever I catch myself dwelling in a negative or unpleasant thought or feeling , I say to myself “ cancelcancel ,” and I then intentionally create a new vision for myself . Sometimes this simple shift in perception is all I need , and other times I reach into my toolkit of emotional release techniques and dedicate five or ten minutes to working through my mini-issue so that my creative energies stay aligned with the outcome I desire .
As someone who is consciously focused on manifesting your soulmate , you too must recognize the powerful influence your thoughts and feelings have on your point of attraction , and do your best to keep them positive . I know ; the process of magnetizing your soulmate can get discouraging at times . But if you ’ re approaching it from the mindset of “ it ’ s been a year and it still hasn ’ t happened ,” you ’ re living in the reality of what ’ s missing . The universe simply can ’ t add more love to your life when you ’ re focused on the love you don ’ t have . Like the old tale of the farmer pulling up the newly planted seed to search for evidence of

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