June/July 2026 Aspire Magazine | Page 64

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The ART of

Self-Nurturing

Reclaim Joy and Play

BY KELLEY GRIMES, MSW

I believe joy is the key to healing and

The stress created by this pattern of over
transforming ourselves and the world.
giving
is
compounded
by
competing
Unfortunately accessing joy and giving ourselves permission to play is difficult for many women who feel responsible for everyone and everything in their lives. This contributes to our overflowing“ to do” lists and jam-packed schedules which leaves little space and time for joy and play.
priorities and unrealistic expectations that feel anything but joyful. When you add to that, all the things outside our control, we find our nervous systems chronically dysregulated.
Living with chronic stress causes us to react or feel triggered when interacting with others, often causing conflicts in our relationships –
also not joyful.

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