CONFIDENCE WITHOUT PERFECTION: A Gentle Shift Back to Yourself

BY LISA HROMADA

I remember the first time I spoke live. I was so nervous, worrying about what others might think and wanting to do everything right— to sound polished, confident, and professional.

I had prepared and practiced, and I truly thought I was ready. And yet, the moment I began, my body tightened and my voice felt shaky. About halfway through my introduction, I drew a complete blank. I had to stop, take a breath, and begin again.

For a long time after, I carried that moment with me— not because I had paused or started over, but because of how I met myself in that moment and in the moments that followed.