Dec24/Jan25 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 101

Right-Hand / Left-Hand™
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When holiday weekends roll around Paul and I remind our students about the ONE TOOL that will give you the best results in steering clear of Family Time Kerfuffles ….

Our Right-Hand / Left-Hand™ tool .

This tool works great in ANY situation where you ’ ll be around people who trigger you , drive you crazy or who simply don ’ t get ( or want to get ) the growth journey you ’ re on . Friends , family and holidays included .
Ok , are you ready to learn it ?
Right-Hand / Left-Hand™
There are two types of people in your life : ( 1 ) Your Tribe and ( 2 ) Friends & Family .
Your TRIBE are the people who grow with you . They hold you to a higher standard and challenge you to be the very best version of yourself . Not only will they reach out and pull you up to your next level , they ’ ll get behind you and kick your ass all the way to the top if they see that you are not really living up to your potential ! Your Tribe grows with you and they GET you .
The other group of people in your life are your friends and family . They have known you the longest , they love you and they are NOT on the same path as you . And it ’ s important to remember that they have positive intent for you — even if the way they express that positive intent doesn ’ t always seem that positive !
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS

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