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The students that get the greatest success with the 8 Step Relationship Transformation System ® I’ m teaching you, come back to the Vision exercise every so often and redo it from a better place!
Are you ready to start creating your Relationship Vision?

YOU CAN START WITH ANSWERING ONE JOURNAL QUESTION …

“ My ultimate relationship would be like …”

As you walk through the exercise of exploring your relationship vision, focus your intention on the“ relationship” that you want, not the partner. Don’ t limit yourself or your visioning by your partner, your current circumstances or anything. Let your imagination take over and consider this a fantasy exercise.
For example: Journal your thoughts and feelings using relationship focus, like“ my relationship would be playful”. And avoid partner focus like“ my partner would be playful”.
Focusing on your partner is a form of blame. And when you blame, you place all the power to change things in the hands of the person you are blaming and render yourself powerless. Don’ t do that. Focus on the relationship and what you want to create.

And suspend the disbelief that you can create it someday.

If you had told me 15 years ago when my husband was walking out the door, that today we would be wildly passionate for each other, rock-solid, indestructible and teaching thousands of people around the world to create the same unshakable love and unleashed passion for themselves … I would have told you that you were crazy.
And yet, here we are … doing exactly that and living in a relationship so far past anything I could have ever dreamed up back then! So everything is possible darling! Suspend disbelief! If I can do it, YOU can do it too!
Just getting clear on what you want to create, will empower you with confidence, purpose, meaning and the joy of living intentionally …. instead of living another day in your relationship by default.
Stacey Martino- Sought after Relationship Expert Stacey Martino knows that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship … ANY relationship!
Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform their relationship … and you don’ t need your partner to participate in the process, for you to get the results you want in your relationship!
Stacey and Paul are the founders of RelationshipDevelopment. org and creators of RelationshipU ®. Today, through their programs and live events, Stacey and Paul help thousands of people transform their love relationship! And as a happy bonus, you get to apply the same strategies to improve all your relationships.
Trained and certified by Tony Robbins, Stacey is a certified marriage educator and divorce preventionist. An international best-selling author, Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert, passionate and engaging speaker and media guest and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine.
A better relationship begins here. Access your FREE online training, How to Get Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in Your Relationship( Even If Your Partner Refuses to Change)
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