Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Oct/Nov 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue: Feminine Wisdo | Page 48

Identifying specific experiences that will help your child provides clarity on opportunities to support them. 2 Eat foods that contain fiber. When a person feels anxious their body goes into fight or flight response and releases a flood of stress hormones including cortisol and adrenaline. These hormones can build up in the blood stream and cause reactions in the body for days, months or years. In fact, many symptoms such as hypersensitivity, allergic reactions, skin irritation, difficulty concentrating, digestive distress and seizures are linked to excess levels of stress hormones in the body. Fiber is a nutrient that works with the liver to detoxify excess hormones from the blood. Fiber is found in fruits and vegetables minimally but the greatest source of fiber per serving is in legumes, or beans. Black beans, pinto, kidney, garbanzo, lentils, lima and more… all kinds of beans provide a great way to help clear your child’s body of excess stress hormones and reduce symptoms caused by anxiety. By consistently adding a serving of beans to your family’s nutrition you can support the chemical balance in their body. A standard serving size is ½ cup or 5 grams of fiber. 3 Demonstrate your child’s love language. Every child feels loved in their own unique way. One child’s heart sings when they receive a special gift, another beams with pride with compliments about their dedication on the soccer field, and another may prefer 48 to spend some quiet time with you before bed. Gary Chapman is the author of the book the 5 Love Languages and shares how important it is to show love to our children in many ways AND especially important to show in the way that is most recognizable to them. The five love languages are: ‧ ‧ ‧ ‧ ‧  ords of affirmation W Physical touch Quality time Receiving gifts Acts of service First, identify your child’s primary love language and then make a list of ways you can demonstrate this consistently. An indication of their primary love language is what they tend to demonstrate most often for others. 4 Reduce sensory stimulation. Did you know that the average person today takes in more stimulation through their five senses in 24 hours than our parents did as www.AspireMAG.net | October / November 2017