Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) June/July 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 29

an exclusive club. ANYONE can have it {the experience}. It is within your grasp! These feelings aren’t kept on a giant pedestal only for the elite – they are available to everyone! Training your brain for gratitude isn’t all that difficult and the benefits can be life changing. Even if initially you are unable to “feel” or experience gratitude, with time and practice they can be cultivated. Dr. Robert Emmons, professor of psychology at the UC/Davis says, “If you go through grateful motions, the emotion of gratitude will eventually be triggered. It is like improving your posture and as a result, becoming more energetic and self-confident.” The benefits of practicing gratitude are nearly endless and can help you: • Lessen feelings of panic, overwhelm and separation by providing a different perspective. • Open your mind to alternative solutions and possibilities because you’ve become more reflective and aware. • Create space and opportunity to appreciate and be satisfied with what you have. • Feel happier, more loving and more optimistic. • Build a stronger immune system by consistently feeding your body positive thoughts and feelings. • Feel more whole, alive, compassionate and connected. In the following section you will find a few simple ways to begin a practice of gratitude right now. Also to support your practice, I invite you to download a mini-version of my Gratitude and Love Journal. It has been designed to help you cultivate a daily “IF YOU GO THROUGH GRATEFUL MOTIONS, THE EMOTION OF GRATITUDE WILL EVENTUALLY BE TRIGGERED. IT IS LIKE IMPROVING YOUR POSTURE AND AS A RESULT, BECOMING MORE ENERGETIC AND SELF- CONFIDENT.” – Dr. Robert Emmons practice, and contains quotes, prompts and coloring pages to get you grounded, focused and excited to begin. HERE ARE 8 SIMPLE TIPS AND IDEAS YOU CAN USE TO HELP YOU PRACTICE GRATITUDE LIKE A PRO: 1 Look for and notice what’s right. What is working in the situation you are in right now? What is good about it? There is always something. With gratitude, it doesn’t matter how small the thing is you are focusing on. The more we search for what is good and what is right, the more good and right we will find. WISDOM & SELF-GROWTH 29