Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/Mar 2020 Aspire Magazine FULL Issue | Page 60

TRANSFORMING Relationship Your The Accidental Alignment Predicament: ™ How to Stop FIGHTING and Start WORKING TOGETHER BY STACEY MARTINO D o you find yourself arguing with your partner over parenting, money, work or other day-to-day kerfuffles? You might find yourself thinking, “Why doesn’t he get it!” Maybe you’ve even started doubting your relationship. After all, if you really loved each other, you would see eye to eye, right? No! You are experiencing a predictable relationship dynamic that Paul and I call The Accidental Alignment Predicament™. The good news is, it’s easy to identify and if you’re willing to put in the work, simple to fix. 60 www.AspireMAG.net | February / March 2020