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That’ s how it really works!
The students that get the greatest success with the 8 Step Relationship Transformation System ® I’ m teaching you, come back to the Vision exercise every so often and redo it from a better place!
Are you ready to start creating your Relationship Vision?
YOU CAN START WITH ANSWERING ONE JOURNAL QUESTION …
“ My ultimate relationship would be like …”
As you walk through the exercise of exploring your relationship vision, focus your intention on the“ relationship” that you want, not the partner. Don’ t limit yourself or your visioning by your partner, your current circumstances or anything. Let your imagination take over and consider this a fantasy exercise.
For example: Journal your thoughts and feelings using relationship focus, like“ my relationship would be playful”. And avoid partner focus like“ my partner would be playful”.
Focusing on your partner is a form of blame. And when you blame, you place all the power to change things in the hands of the person you are blaming and render yourself powerless. Don’ t do that. Focus on the relationship and what you want to create.
And suspend the disbelief that you can create it someday.
If you had told me 15 years ago when my husband was walking out the door, that today we would be wildly passionate for each other, rock-solid, indestructible and teaching thousands of people around the world to create the same unshakable love and unleashed passion for themselves … I would have told you that you were crazy.
And yet, here we are … doing exactly that and living in a relationship so far past anything I could have ever dreamed up back then! So everything is possible darling! Suspend disbelief! If I can do it, YOU can do it too! Just getting clear on what you want to create, will empower you with confidence, purpose, meaning and the joy of living intentionally …. instead of living another day in your relationship by default.
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Stacey Martino- Sought after Relationship Expert Stacey Martino knows that Better Relationships equal a Better LifeTM! Stepping out of the old relationship paradigm of couple’ s coaching, Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform, not only, their love relationship but ANY relationship … and you don’ t need your partner to participate for this to work for you! Stacey is the founder of RelationshipDevelopment. org and creator of RelationshipU ®. Visit her website and download your free eBook today“ It Does Not Take Two to Tango! How One Partner Can Transform Any Relationship in Eight Simple Steps.”
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