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That ’ s how it really works !
The students that get the greatest success with the 8 Step Relationship Transformation System ® I ’ m teaching you , come back to the Vision exercise every so often and redo it from a better place !
Are you ready to start creating your Relationship Vision ?
YOU CAN START WITH ANSWERING ONE JOURNAL QUESTION …
“ My ultimate relationship would be like …”
As you walk through the exercise of exploring your relationship vision , focus your intention on the “ relationship ” that you want , not the partner . Don ’ t limit yourself or your visioning by your partner , your current circumstances or anything . Let your imagination take over and consider this a fantasy exercise .
For example : Journal your thoughts and feelings using relationship focus , like “ my relationship would be playful ”. And avoid partner focus like “ my partner would be playful ”.
Focusing on your partner is a form of blame . And when you blame , you place all the power to change things in the hands of the person you are blaming and render yourself powerless . Don ’ t do that . Focus on the relationship and what you want to create .
And suspend the disbelief that you can create it someday .
If you had told me 15 years ago when my husband was walking out the door , that today we would be wildly passionate for each other , rock-solid , indestructible and teaching thousands of people around the world to create the same unshakable love and unleashed passion for themselves … I would have told you that you were crazy .
And yet , here we are … doing exactly that and living in a relationship so far past anything I could have ever dreamed up back then ! So everything is possible darling ! Suspend disbelief ! If I can do it , YOU can do it too ! Just getting clear on what you want to create , will empower you with confidence , purpose , meaning and the joy of living intentionally …. instead of living another day in your relationship by default .
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Stacey Martino - Sought after Relationship Expert Stacey Martino knows that Better Relationships equal a Better LifeTM ! Stepping out of the old relationship paradigm of couple ’ s coaching , Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform , not only , their love relationship but ANY relationship … and you don ’ t need your partner to participate for this to work for you ! Stacey is the founder of RelationshipDevelopment . org and creator of RelationshipU ®. Visit her website and download your free eBook today “ It Does Not Take Two to Tango ! How One Partner Can Transform Any Relationship in Eight Simple Steps .”
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