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But do you know what
sameness is NOT good for?
You got it…PASSION!
That’s because passion
comes from differences!
In the beginning of a
relationship everything is
NEWNESS! There are plenty
of differences, and thus
plenty of passion!
There’s only ONE problem with that…
it’s all CRAP! As we build more sameness
in our relationship by living in
the same house, having the
same friends, or having kids,
by definition, the differences start to fade
and the passion fizzles.
And what breaks my heart is that it keeps
great people stuck in a relationship that is
LESS than they dreamed it would be. The good news is that if this has happened
to your relationship, we can help you turn
this around! It’s never too late.
So, what IS the problem? With the proper tools and strategies, it’s
possible to create a height of passion that
matches the depth of your love. In fact,
you can create a passion that is way hotter
and more exciting than it was when you
were dating! I’m living proof of that!
It’s what I call the
Relationship” Epidemic.
“Passion-less
You can see it everywhere you look…
couples are good friends, good parents
together… but that’s about it. The SIZZLE
has FIZZLED!
I explain why this happens to so many
couples using a tool called the ‘Love and
Passion See-Saw.’
Love and passion work like a see-saw;
the HIGHER your LOVE goes, the passion
starts to fall lower and lower, until it’s gone.
WHY?
It’s a predictable pattern actually…
Love comes from “sameness.” Having
things in common is the foundation for LOVE!
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How?
You must intentionally cultivate the
differences in your relationship! It sounds
simple, but in my experience, this will
NOT happen ACCIDENTALLY. You must
CREATE it!
While Paul and I teach loads of the
differences to empower you with the tools
and strategies that really work to reignite
your passion, today I want to teach you the
Number One difference that will give you
the biggest results!
POLARITY!
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