Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Dec/Jan 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue: Taking Time fo | Page 61

1. 2.  hat are my current beliefs W about ... • Money? 
• The economy?
• What it takes to cre- ate a thriving business? • What it takes to create long-term, sus- tainable wealth?
• What it takes to leave a legacy? 
  here did these beliefs come W from? Who gave them to me? 
 The response to the second question—who gave you your current belief systems—will overwhelmingly be your parents, teachers, friends, and family members. Now, be honest: were these people wealthy and successful? And, if so, were they wealthy and successful in the same way that you want to be wealthy and successful? If you’re currently struggling to create the wealth and success you desire, the answer is probably “no.” So now, let me ask you this: is it possible that your current set of beliefs may not be the truth when it comes building wealth? We don’t let go of our truths easily. I’m not asking you to change your fundamental beliefs overnight. All I ask is that you open your mind to the possibility that there are pathways to success other than the ones you were taught. Once you do that, opportunities will start to crop up for you in all kinds of unexpected places—like that infomercial I saw on late-night TV! Be willing to flip the coin; to look at the other side of the story, and admit that you might have something to learn. In my experience, the easiest way to become rich is to “do what the rich do.” It means expanding your circle of influence to include mentors, friends, and role models who have accomplished what you want to accomplish, in the same way that you want to accomplish it. Forget those who teach from theory and logic; you need to be around people who have actually done it. When you’re in their presence, the life and wealth you desire to create isn’t just a fantasy anymore; it’s attainable, and it’s standing right in front of you! However, to bene t from this association, you need to set aside your ego, be willing to learn, and put aside your old “truths” and judgments to make way for new, upgraded beliefs and thoughts. In my experience, the easiest way to become rich is to “do what the rich do.” The flip side of expanding your circle of influence to include people who inspire and motivate you is that you need to let go of people who are holding you back. People who cut you down, ridicule your dreams, 61 The first step in developing a success- oriented mindset is to understand your current mindset and where it comes from. So, grab a piece of paper and a pen, and answer the following two questions: