Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) DEC 2016 / JAN 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue A Miracl | Page 89

Let me share, to live a bold and powerful life, you should feel whole, ingredient in your elixir of love is your…confidence. Keep in mind, low selfesteem and low self-worth often come hand-in-hand with co-dependence. Men can be like Bloodhounds. They can sniff out desperate women a mile away and they go running for the hills. They do this, because needy and clingy women are unattractive, and in their ...to live a bold and powerful life, you should feel whole, happy and grateful with the life you have now. happy and grateful with the life you have now. It’s the energy of gratitude that attracts Mr. Right to you. This is the secret sauce that will start the magical wheels turning towards juicy love. But in all honesty ladies, you don’t need another person to make you happy; this belief is just setting you up for disappointment. What you truly desire is to be with another person to share your life with, to establish m emories, and create amazing adventures with you. The most powerful mind, high-maintenance. Unfortunately, clinginess shows up in so many ways. Neediness is a red flag for insecurity. Success, happiness, and confidence are aphrodisiacs. As I’ve said already, strength and confidence are traits which attract men to you. So what stands in the way? It’s your selfdefeating thoughts. You recognize them when you feel worse. Your life feels dull and lifeless. It’s so easy to fall back into this disempowering behavior which drains your strength and confidence. When you notice your thoughts shifting in this downward direction, shut them out and replace them with an empowering positive aspect about you. HERE ARE 4 WAYS YOU CAN BUILD YOUR SEXY SELFCONFIDENCE: 1 Freedom from the “Comparison” Trap Comparing ourselves to the people we see on TV, in magazines, on the street or our friends is TRAP #1 to self-defeating thoughts of who we are. Seriously ask yourself, has the comparison trap made you feel any better about you? It’s safe to say “No”. Then why do you continue to punish yourself? You have some wonderful attributes that make you uniquely you. Let them rise and shine for everyone 89 FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS So here you are desiring to attract your Life Partner or Soul Mate. Let’s see, he’s strong, intelligent, happy and confident. He could make your life a little brighter, even a bit more yummy and delicious. With him around, you could feel whole. Or, would you?