Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) DEC 2016 / JAN 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue A Miracl | Page 82
With the house, the kids, the work and all
the busyness….dating, fun, flirting and
playfulness go right out the window! And life
just isn’t very FUN anymore!
The truth is, couples who continue to date,
have fun together and can make each other
laugh can navigate real life challenges more
easily than those who are NOT having any
fun and have lost their dating relationship.
Today, too many of us are stuck in overresponsibility.
Believe it or not, even with the kids, and the
house and kicking butt in your work….you
CAN still have playfulness, fun and flirting in
your relationship!
And the energy of romance and flirting is
the slippery slope into the sensuality that
you desire.
Step Eight: Sensuality
Can you imagine a sensuality hotter than
when you first started dating? Where you
experience daily sensual energy with
your partner.
It is absolutely possible! (I’m living proof!)
Many people come to me and want to
START at Step Eight! They take a look at
our 8 steps and say “Hey, why is sex all the
way at the end? Can we skip to step 8?”
My reply is always the same. The steps are
strategically designed in this order because
“a sex problem is rarely a sex problem.”
What do I mean by that?
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The gateway to ravishing sex, for women, is
VULNERABILITY.
This level of vulnerability would require you to
feel a tremendous level of rock-solid support
and protection from your man, so you can
open and surrender. And most women are
not there yet in their relationships.
That’s why I say “a sex problem is rarely a
sex problem” because it is not found in the
“sex,” it’s found in the relationship (steps 1-7)!
In the coming issues of Aspire, I will take
you on a deeper dive into each of the 8
transformational steps and give you a tool
or strategy to implement to experience a
shift in your relationships that day!
In the meantime, if you are ready for a
deeper dive on all eight steps now, check
out our Relationship Development 101
Program and get started today!
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Stepping out of the old relationship
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strategies to transform, not only, their love
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www.AspireMAG.net | December 2016 / January 2017