Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 95

I was distracted most of the time, which left me feeling empty and on a constant search for something meaningful. Once I realized that ALL my answers were inside of me and I began cultivating Sacred Presence, EVERY moment felt meaningful. You might be wondering what I mean by Sacred Presence, so allow me to explain. To me sacred presence is a daily practice that gifts you the ability to be fully in the present moment – any moment. You can be present with intense feelings both good and uncomfortable without needing to escape, numb, avoid, deflect or self sabotage. You begin cultivating Sacred Presence by discerning what is important to you in life and business. When I first embarked on my entrepreneurial journey years ago, being available to my children was extremely important to me, so starting a laptop lifestyle business was the answer as it checked the boxes on my top two must haves; my children’s wellbeing and serving women all over the world. I invite you to journal or meditate on what is important to you in life and business, as it will give you a starting point on which to build your Sacred Presence practice. In my experience most women live on autopilot simply putting one foot in front of the other – that’s a life lived by default, not by design. Each day I get to choose to spend my time on what truly matters to me in my heart of hearts. Imagine what your life would feel like if you had the ability to spend every day being present to what matters? HERE ARE 3 WAYS TO CULTIVATE SACRED PRESENCE IN YOUR LIFE: 1.  Begin and end each day connecting to the Sacred. This does not need to be elaborate; you can simply take a few minutes to connect to your higher power. My practice is super simple, I begin each day by lighting a candle to my Mother Mary statue, lighting up incense, and surrendering my day to the Divine. I ask for my gifts to be used for good in the world. In the evening, as I’m lying in bed, I thank the Divine for my day; I say something like, “thank you, thank you, thank you for the gift of this day”. 2. Do one thing at a time. In other words, STOP MULTITASKING! Listen, no one loves checking crap off of a to-do list more than I do – trust me, however doing more than one thing at a time means that your full attention is not on the task at hand. So when you’re eating, just eat and taste your food and when you’re showering be present and give your body the love, caresses and attention it deserves. 95 To me sacred presence is a daily practice that gifts you the ability to be fully in the present moment – any moment.