Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2017 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 65

10 Healthy Reasons to Practice Compassion: 1 I  t makes us feel good (e.g., helping someone in need) it activates the pleasure circuits in our brain. 2 It makes us less prone to heart disease. 3 It lowers stress hormones. 4 Brain scans done during loving- kindness meditation show that the mind wanders less and as a result we feel happier. 5 It makes us more caring parents. 6 It makes us better partners. 7 It makes us better friends. 8 Employees who are treated with kindness and consideration at work see their workplace, fellow employees and the organization itself in a better light. 9 Being kind to one person makes us less angry with another, the feeling expands. 10  olding back on feelings of H compassion hurts our self-esteem and undermines our morality. Kuan Yin is known as the Goddess of Infinite Compassion and Mercy, she is like the Mother Mary of the East. Her name in Chinese means “the one who hears the cries of the world.” She is often depicted holding a vase which is pouring the nectar of wisdom and compassion onto the world. 65 We need to feed a loving voice in ourselves: compassionate, aware, kind and patient. As we start being nicer to ourselves, more accepting of our shortcomings and exercising patience, this feeling of openness and understanding ripples out to the world around us. After all, compassion is not only heroic deeds, but small unseen and often unthanked kindnesses done by any one of us, those apparently small effects do resonate out in the world.