Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2016 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 99
SELF-REFLECTION, SELF-AWARENESS AND GRATITUDE
ARE THE KEYS TO YOUR HAPPINESS AND GROWTH.
Do you have this dream as well? How long
have you been holding onto it? Has this
ever been your reality? Are you still wishing
and praying?
The sad fact is, this will never be the reality
for many women because too many of them
aren’t willing to cherish, value and pamper
themselves. The principles of the Law of
Attraction are simple, “Not only do you
attract what you think, you attract who you
are”. Imagine this, in order for a strong oak
tree to grow, you must first plant an acorn.
That tiny acorn grows into a mighty tree with
deep roots which keep it firmly planted in
the ground. Love is very much the same
way. You attract who you are.
Opposites DON’T attract!
If you have a hard time trusting people, how
can a man trust you? If you’re not willing to
pamper yourself, invest in you and cherish
yourself, then why would a man do that for
you? This last point really came to life when
I was talking to my sweetie. He spoils and
cherishes me, so I asked him to share his
man wisdom. This is what he said…
“I will give, do and pay for what my woman
wants if I know she’s willing to do that for
herself. I’m here to enhance her life, make it
easier but not supplement it. When the crazy/
clingy behavior shows up, I’m out. When I
feel good in her presence, I’m ALL in.”
Self-reflection, selfawareness and gratitude are
the keys to your happiness
and growth. Ask yourself:
1
How do you cherish, value and
pamper yourself?
2
How do you respect yourself?
Do you respect men?
3
ow do you appreciate and
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show self-love? Do you
appreciate and love men?
4
o you believe a man can
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actually want you for your brains
and heart? Or, do you have a
subconscious belief men only
care about sex?
5
Do you trust yourself and your
decisions?
6
If you’re looking for “Prince
Charming” who protects his
Princess, his maiden - a woman
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