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4. S CRIPTS, OLD
PROGRAMMING,
INVISIBLE BELIEFS
Look at your thoughts and pay attention to
what they’re limiting beliefs they are looping
and repeating in your mind. Be willing to
choose which thoughts keep you small,
anxious and unmotivated and which ones
delight, expand and grow you to your next
level. Then, let go of the thoughts and beliefs
that are bringing your confidence down.
These old, out of date past thoughts and
beliefs sound like, “I’m unlovable”, “I’m
unsafe”, “I’m worthless”. The beliefs you
have about yourself and about others will
impact you in love, career, relationships,
health and life Choose beliefs that build you
up not knock you down.
5. VICTIM
ORIENTATION
creator orientation, you’ll develop resilience
and can see a change as plans as a new
opportunity to create something new.
6. F EAR OF
REJECTION
We all experience fear at some point in our
lives, especially the fear of rejection. It keeps
us safe and it protects us from danger. Fear
can motivate us to get out of a dangerous
situation, and take action towards our goals.
But most of the fear that we carry around
does not serve us. It actually paralyzes and
imprisons us. And this is when we turn into
victims. We shrink. We hide in the shadows.
And we stop trying.
This is exactly the point where people stop.
Fear stops them in their tracks. Learn to
Do you say things like, “I’ve tried everything
and nothing ever works for me” or “I’ll never
be able to do that” or how about “I’m too
slow”, or “I’m too old” and “I’m not lucky”.
These are beliefs you have about yourself
and your brain will sabotage yourself to
ensure that you’re right about your beliefs.
For example, at the last minute you are
asked to give a presentation to speak on
behalf of your sick boss. Do you see it as
a problem or as an opportunity? In victim
orientation you may think, “I can never count
on anything turning out as planned.” In
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