Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Aug/Sept 2016 Aspire Mag Full Issue | Page 45
CONNECT WITH SOURCE:
FEEL YOUR DECISIONS:
Growing up you were taught to think things
over which takes you immediately out of
your heart space and into your headspace.
I’ve trained myself to move between my
head and heart space by thinking and
feeling into decisions. Women who think too
much have an over abundance of AIR, one
of the cardinal elements that corresponds
to the mental realm - thoughts, etc., so
the antidote to having too much AIR is to
ground and center. Go outside in nature and
put your hands or feet in dirt, sand, grass –
whichever is most convenient for you.
MIND YOUR BUSINESS:
There’s an old saying, “Not my circus, not
my monkeys”. You must keep your nose out
of other people’s drama in order to enjoy
peace, grace and flow. Trust me I know
how much all the people in your life need
you, but your need to “fix” or “help” is a codependent behavior – SAVE YOURSELF
and let others figure their own crap out (this
applies to your children too... they need
coping and decision making skills - stop
getting in the way of their empowerment by
fixing and doing everything for them).
THREE IS THE MAGIC NUMBER:
I make no secret that the number 3 is my
second favorite number (13 is my absolute
favorite number). Put no more than 3 tasks
(besides your daily to do’s like exercise,
etc.) on your to do list per day. Don’t fill your
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WISDOM & SELF-GROWTH
I begin each day by talking to my Creator.
Most people pray or speak to Source on
an as needed basis, which is lovely, but
doesn’t really cultivate a strong relationship.
Daily connection is what builds a strong
connection. A prayer practice doesn’t need
to be a whole time consuming thing, unless
you desire it to be - it’s up to you. Most
mornings I simply ground and center, light
a candle on my altar, and ask the Divine to
“show me” and use me for good in the world.
This simple prayer practice starts my day off
in a high vibration and with peace knowing
that I’m not alone and that the Universe has
my back!