That negative mindset kept me making safe choices like getting married instead of starting a career in my early 20’ s. I was so fearful that I didn’ t have what it takes to make it in the world as a single, independent woman. What I’ ve learned is that the Divine is relentless when you are meant for bigger things in life, because over the next 25 years, I kept calling in situations and relationships that would force me to step through my fears and into my entrepreneurial shoes.

Can you can notice a little of your own story in my story? Perhaps you’ ve dreamed of starting a heart-centered business and allowed fear to stop you. I get it, trust me, but what I know for sure is the following- when you step into your personal fires instead of running from them, you become a courageous, badass of a woman. A QUEEN ready to take her place on her throne. My throne made of pure gold and is jewel encrusted just in case you were wondering …

After working with hundreds of women over the last 5 years on mindset and business creation + building, I know that most women run from their fears instead of walking towards them. I did too for most of my life. I believed that if I didn’ t look at what scared me, or stop talking to the person who was upsetting me, I would avoid conflict and be safe.

Not the case.

My biggest fears showed up over and over again in a different scenario or in a different human being until I faced them. Starting my online business was a huge trigger for me. Being visible, vulnerable and authentic – letting strangers see my personal pain and underbelly was NOT something I had a comfort level around. However, those qualities are necessary for building a heartcentered coaching business, so I had two choices; ditch my business or step into my fear.

I chose to step into my fear and still do to this day.

There’ s a saying that I heard from my mentors during trainings over and over; new level- new devil, and that has been my experience. Every time I moved my business forward a new fear dragon came swooping in to scare the crap out of me. I remember my very first unsubscribe from my email list … I cried on and off the entire day – no joke. I felt like I had gotten fired. The first 100 unsubscribes from my email list made me cry too, just not all day. Then one day I finally decided to examine why I felt so bad when an unsubscribe came in and noticed that I had a strong need to be liked and approved of. It was at that point that I started my journey to heal my codependency. As I healed my co-dependency it became easier and easier to accept what seemed like“ rejection” and helped me stand more fully in my power.

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