Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Apr/May 2018 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 81

be; It will definitely work next time; Everything happens for a reason. Examples of conscious responses that you can implement into your life and relationships: • I  ’m so sorry for your loss, I’m here for you. • I can’t imagine what you are going through. I’m going to continue to check on you even if you don’t feel like talking. • I’m sorry you are going through this. I know you loved him/her and this is hard for you. I’m happy you are safe and I’m here for you. • I’m so sorry, I’m here for you to share all of the emotions you are feeling. • You have my full support and love. • I’m so sorry, I have no words, but I care about you and I’m here for you. • I’m here for you to talk, cry, tell your story and/or to just sit with you in silence so you know you’re not alone. As a result of implementing these foundations, you will become the best version of yourself. In addition, you will gain confidence knowing that you are living with a high level of integrity and authenticity. You will find this energy coming back to you and you will start attracting other people that are authentic and make a conscious effort to be the best version of themselves. Michele Greer - Michele is a transformational and lifestyle coach who helps women rewrite their story of pain, lack and struggle that is keeping them from living their best lives. Michele’s BEYOND BRAVE mission was birthed after her own life-altering experience. Using the same mindset strategies and self-love rituals she used to transform her own life, she empowers and supports women who are caught up in the “story” of their past, helps them rewrite their story and create a life of happiness, joy and fulfillment. Visit www.MicheleGreer.com and download your Burn Your Blueprint Gift and schedule a complimentary 30-minute Life Strategy session. “ Living a l if and grace e with love is living wit h authenticit y.” Michele Greer 81 Have you used any of these responses or have you received them? If so, did it make you feel worse and give you that cringing feeling inside? Even though it was meant with a loving intention, it can be extremely hurtful. Also, it’s important to remember that people are not going to tell you what they need or want because they don’t know. They are in an extremely vulnerable and difficult time in their life. Instead of asking them what they need, trust yourself and do whatever you feel in your heart will help them.