Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Apr/May 2018 Aspire Magazine Full Issue | Page 64

The ART of Self-Nurturing 5 Steps to Cultivating RESILIENCE in Difficult Times BY KELLEY GRIMES, MSW I n a time of continued change and uncertainty in our world, learning to cultivate resilience is essential for staying grounded and empowered. Resilience is our ability to bounce back from difficult experiences and is similar to self-nurturing in that it can be cultivated over time creating a reserve to draw upon. I am so inspired by the amazing resilience I have witnessed my clients cultivate over the years and will share with you five steps you can take to cultivate resilience in your own life. I am grateful for Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant’s book, Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience and Finding Joy, and their definition that “Resilience is the strength and speed of our response to adversity and we can build it. It isn’t about having backbone. It is about strengthening the muscles around our backbone.” 64 www.AspireMAG.net | April / May 2019